Sex Advice

Dear Dr. Locker: How can I tell if a woman is faking orgasm?

Answer from Dr. Locker

It is easy for a woman to thrash around, moan, and throw her head back in mock ecstasy to try to make you believe that she is having an orgasm. But there is one surefire way to determine if she is faking it: When a woman truly has an orgasm, her vagina contracts in a series of quick pulses or spasms. No vaginal contractions means no orgasm. Some other signs of a real orgasm to watch for, though less obvious, include increased heart rate, more vaginal lubrication, and warm flushed skin.

For more information, see my answer to this question from a woman: *Is it OK to fake orgasm with my guy if I really don't think it's going to happen?

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