Sex Advice

Dear Dr. Locker: What should I do if I have sex fantasies about my ex when I am with my current boyfriend?

Answer from Dr. Locker

Don’t talk about it with your boyfriend, and be sure to recognize that this is not at all something to act out. It’s normal to have these kinds of sexual fantasies. In fact, a study in the Journal of Sex Research found that 98% of men and 80% of women have sexual fantasies about people other than their partners even though they are faithful. This does not mean that you would want to cheat.

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