February, 2009

This Saturday night, Feb. 14, after you’ve exchanged heart shaped cards, candy and flowers, will you be having Valentine’s sex?  For many couples who have been together for y-e-a-r-s even the “excuse” of Valentine’s Day may not be enough to boost the excitement in their sex lives. That’s why you may want to give a small, inexpensive sexy toy to your lover to use for Valentine’s night. Here are two of the best sexy (but non-threatening) new toys.

Quiver Freezable Lubricant Cubes: Cubes of water-based lubricant that you freeze and then they melt on contact. Experimenting with different temperature can be sexy. You can act out the sex scene from 9 1/2 Weeks, by rubbing the frozen lube cube all over your partner’s body. It will be a cool treat for Valentine’s night. (About $6.99 for a box of 6 cubes)

Play Vibrations: Vibrating Ring. Exciting, discreet sex toy for couples to use together. He puts the ring on the base of his penis, and she can feel the mini-vibrator on her clitoris. Some women can orgasm this way during intercourse. (About $7.99 for one ring, which has an off-on switch for multiple uses of up to a total of 20 minutes of vibrations.)

Valentine’s Day provides the permission for you to give something like this. So enjoy spicing up your sex life this weekend.

I get many questions about women’s orgasms… How can a woman have an orgasm during sex? What does an orgasm feel like? How long does an orgasm last? How can a guy tell if a woman has had an orgasm, or if she is faking orgasm? Can all women have orgasms? How can a woman orgasm for the first time? To find this info on my site, check out these links.

On my “Articles” page, my article about The Female Orgasm.

From my “Advice” page, my answer to this question: How can women have orgasms during “regular” intercourse?

Also, my answer to this questison from my advice column: I have never had an orgasm. I am a 29 year old single woman. Do you have any tips for how to have an orgasm?

You can also search the “Orgasm” section of my “Advice” page for even more questions and my answers. Happy orgasms to all!