Comments on: Trouble Having First Orgasm http://sarilocker.com/blog/2009/05/08/trouble-having-first-orgasm/ Dr. Sari Locker: Sex Educator and TV Personality Mon, 23 May 2011 06:17:25 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.4.11 By: Gary M. http://sarilocker.com/blog/2009/05/08/trouble-having-first-orgasm/comment-page-1/#comment-149 Mon, 15 Jun 2009 11:35:47 +0000 http://sarilocker.com/blog/?p=1110#comment-149 I had been married for more than 10 years before my wife had her first orgasm! No it is not my fault. When I met her, she did have other partners and told me she had never had an orgasm nor had she ever tried masturbation. We read books and I sought advice from some friends. In the end, we bought a Hitachi Magic Wand and about one year ago she achieved her first orgasm. I persisted because and knew that an orgasm would change her perspective of sex. It did!

She was incredibly sensitive when using the wand. At first we would only use it on low with a towel folded to reduce impact as advised but it took my changing it to high without her knowing before she eventually had her first orgasm at 37.

My advice. Use the wand, take the time and it will happen. I owned the wand for more than three years before we had success because we were neither aggressive or persistent enough since we were not sure what of the multitude of devices we purchased would work.

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