Sex Advice

Dear Dr. Locker: Can you tell me a couple of new and exciting sex positions?

Answer from Dr. Locker

Here are two of the newest positions that I've come up with:

1. VERTICAL SPREAD The woman can feel tighter to him and expose her clitoris more by spreading her legs vertically, not horizontally. In missionary position (she's on her back, and his legs are between hers), she grasps behind her own knee of one leg, and keeps her leg straight, extending it up toward her nose. She’ll have one leg resting flat on the bed, and the one pointing toward her head (holding it there). That gives her a vertical spread of her legs and changes the angle of penetration during missionary position sex.

2. HAVING A BALL: (I also wrote about this one in Cosmo recently) Get a medium or large sized exercise ball or large beach ball. The woman lies back on it, with her legs spread, feet flat on the ground, head pointed up or back on the ball, and fingers reaching toward the floor for support. Have the guy kneel between her legs as he enters her. He can continue kneeling while holding her hips as he thrusts, or he can stretch his body over hers and use his feet on the ground for support. She can grab his butt and draw him into her, or keep her hands on the floor for balance as he moves in and out. The exercise ball will roll away if he thrusts too hard or too fast, so he has to restrain his motions—no wild bucking—which will keep his desire on a slow boil. Also, because she has to maintain her balance it forces her to tilt her pelvis upward slightly, so he experiences deep penetration.

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