Sex Advice

Dear Dr. Locker:  Is it possible to create sexual chemistry, or is this a lost cause?

Answer from Dr. Locker

In the best situations, all you have to do is glance at someone and the two of you feel the magic. If that isn't automatically there for you, it is possible to create it, and here's how: Find a few little things about the person that you like, and then try to feel turned on by those things, rather than the person as a whole. Such as, "Ooooh, this person has the greatest eyes, and that really gets me hot." Your sexual feelings and interest in this relationship may grow from there. However, if after several weeks or months you're still not feeling it, then it's just not meant to be. Any good relationship should contain a hot sexual component (especially at the beginning), and no one should have to compromise. You deserve the whole package: compatibility and great chemistry.

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