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Homemade Sex Toys: Creating DIY Sex Toys

Tuesday, April 21st, 2009

 

In the “Articles” section of my website, I have written an article about How to Use Household Objects as Sex Toys. Please click here to read it.

You may also enjoy the “Advice” section of my website, where I answered a question about Do It Yourself Sex Toys. Click here to here to go there.

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First Kisses: The New Rules

Monday, April 20th, 2009

Your lips touch for the first time: The earth moves. The angels sing, or, at least, that’s what you hope will happen, right? Read on for tips for an amazing first kiss.

I wrote the following article about first kisses for Match dot com a few years ago, and it was recently republished on MSN dot com. I’ve been getting tons of email from people who enjoyed the article. I’ve also been asked to talk about it on the syndicated radio show, “The Ralphie Show” in Providence, RI, Scranton, PA, and Wilkes-Barre, PA. So, I thought I’d repost it here. It begins after the jump. Please feel free to leave your comments about your favorite first kisses.

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Sex Advice: Using Vibrators Changes Sex

Friday, February 27th, 2009

My Advice column on this site has new sex questions and my answers three times a week.

Here’s a recent Q & A from my Advice column:

Dear Dr. Locker, If I use a vibrator all the time, will it make sex less enjoyable for me?

Dr. Locker Says: Yes and no. If a woman relies on a vibrator in order to orgasm every time, then she may not be able to orgasm any other way — because her body gets so used to the electric stimulation. Will this make sex less enjoyable for you? Well, no, if you and your partner don’t mind that you’ll have to use the vibrator every time you want to orgasm when you are intimate. But if you want to be able to orgasm while you and your partner are being sexual, without having to use a vibrator, then you would most likely need to entirely stop using the vibrator to get over it, and to re-sensitive your body to your hand (or his hand, or rubbing on his body, or oral sex) in order to orgasm. It’s all a matter of what you find most enjoyable.

For many more sex questions and answers, browse or search my Advice column.

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Single on Valentine’s Day?

Friday, February 13th, 2009

Here are ten (corny) ideas that I came up with for how to brighten up Valentine’s Day if you are single!  (more…)

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The Female Orgasm

Tuesday, February 10th, 2009

I get many questions about women’s orgasms… How can a woman have an orgasm during sex? What does an orgasm feel like? How long does an orgasm last? How can a guy tell if a woman has had an orgasm, or if she is faking orgasm? Can all women have orgasms? How can a woman orgasm for the first time? To find this info on my site, check out these links.

On my “Articles” page, my article about The Female Orgasm.

From my “Advice” page, my answer to this question: How can women have orgasms during “regular” intercourse?

Also, my answer to this questison from my advice column: I have never had an orgasm. I am a 29 year old single woman. Do you have any tips for how to have an orgasm?

You can also search the “Orgasm” section of my “Advice” page for even more questions and my answers. Happy orgasms to all!

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Birth Control Methods

Tuesday, January 6th, 2009

As I promised to Sirius/XM Covino and Rich listeners today…

Here’s a link with birth control info.

Also, here’s the info about Durex Sensi Thin and Durex Extra Sensitive condoms, which are thinner than most condoms.

Finally, here’s a link to my advice page where I answer the question: Can a woman get pregnant if you use a condom?

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