sex advice

Here are ten (kinda corny) ideas that I came up with for how to brighten up Valentine’s Day if you are single!  (more…)

I get many questions about women’s orgasms… How can a woman have an orgasm during sex? What does an orgasm feel like? How long does an orgasm last? How can a guy tell if a woman has had an orgasm, or if she is faking orgasm? Can all women have orgasms? How can a woman orgasm for the first time? To find this info on my site, check out these links.

On my “Articles” page, my article about The Female Orgasm.

From my “Advice” page, my answer to this question: How can women have orgasms during “regular” intercourse?

Also, my answer to this questison from my advice column: I have never had an orgasm. I am a 29 year old single woman. Do you have any tips for how to have an orgasm?

You can also search the “Orgasm” section of my “Advice” page for even more questions and my answers. Happy orgasms to all!

As I promised to Sirius/XM Covino and Rich listeners today…

Here’s a link with birth control info.

Also, here’s the info about Durex Sensi Thin and Durex Extra Sensitive condoms, which are thinner than most condoms.

Finally, here’s a link to my advice page where I answer the question: Can a woman get pregnant if you use a condom?

I just updated the “Questions of the Week” in my SEX ADVICE COLUMN.  Please check it out. Search or browse all of the categories to get your sex questions answered.

This morning, I was on 98.5 FM WNCX Cleveland’s classic rock station (via phone), talking about the Durex Sexual Wellbeing Global Survey findings about orgasms. One of the findings is that only 36% of American women say that they “almost always” orgasm during sex, as opposed to 83% of American men who say that they “almost always” orgasm during sex. It’s more difficult for women to orgasm during sex, because most women need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm, and they don’t always get it during intercourse. I discuss this more in my advice area here, and there I give details about what women can do to have an easier time achieving orgasm during sex. Many women who have a tough time orgasming during sex may enjoy having their orgasm before or after intercourse. That might make their sex life completely content! Yet, interestingly, according to the survey, 58% of people who said that they “usually” achieve orgasm during sex said that they were “content” with the emotional aspect of their sex life, compared with 29% of those who “rarely” orgasm during sex.

Today, I updated the “Questions of the Week” in my SEX ADVICE COLUMN .  Please check it out!

I updated the “Questions of the Week” in my sex advice column today (as I do every Monday, Wednesday, Friday). This week, there are new questions about nipples, sexually transmitted infections, the G-spot for men, and more. To find hundreds of other sex and relationship questions and my answers, be sure to “search” the archives of my sex advice column. Also, from that page you can ”submit” your own questions for me to answer. Enjoy!

 (This photo was taken for my book “Sari Says.” Blouse: Pucci. Pants: H&M. Feather Pencil and Toe Rings: Claires. Authentic Egg Chair from the 1960s: Awesome!)

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